Most people who type something like “what kind of therapy do I need” into a search bar are not asking a definitional question. They are asking a personal one. Something is off, something feels heavier than it should, a transition is not going the way they hoped. The question is rarely “do I need cognitive behavioural therapy or interpersonal therapy?” It is closer to “which of the available types of therapy and support actually fits where I am right now?”
This post walks through what is on offer at Turning Tides and how to figure out which one fits, without pretending the answer is the same for everyone. There is also a short interactive guide later that walks the question through with you.
The main types of therapy and support Turning Tides offers
The practice runs four kinds of work, side by side. Individual counselling is paced, confidential, and held within a clinical framework. It is a form of psychotherapy, sometimes called talk therapy, led by Kotone, a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (RTC) registered with the Association of Cooperative Counselling Therapists of British Columbia (ACCT-BC). Sessions are fifty minutes, online, available across the province.
Life coaching is forward-facing and structured. There is usually a goal, an action plan, and accountability built into the cadence. Kotone holds Certified Life Coach training in addition to the RTC. That means a single client can move between counselling and coaching within a single relationship, paced by what the work actually needs in any given session.
Group therapy programs run on cohorts. The current ones include a twelve-week trauma recovery program and a CPTSD support group. Group work adds something one-on-one work cannot, which is being witnessed by people who recognise the territory.
The book club is the lowest-pressure entry point. It meets monthly. Each book holds a thread that the conversation follows. There is no diagnostic frame, no intake form, just a paced reading group held by a clinician.
How the main types of therapy differ, and what each tends to fit
The differences come down to three things. Depth versus structure: counselling sits with what is happening inside you and lets the pace be set by what surfaces; coaching converts intention into a plan with milestones. Paced versus goal-oriented: counselling has no fixed endpoint; coaching usually runs for a defined number of weeks. Individual versus group: one-on-one work goes deep on one person’s situation; group work brings shared recognition.
The signals from your own situation tend to point toward one over another. If the loudest thing right now is a feeling, a fear, or a recurring response, individual counselling is the natural starting place. If the loudest thing is a stuck plan, a transition, or a goal you cannot quite move on, coaching fits. If you have been sitting with something for a long time and want to stop carrying it alone, the group work or the book club are both quietly useful entry points.
What to look for when choosing among types of therapy
Beyond the regulatory question (counselling is a regulated profession in BC; coaching is not), three things matter most when you are choosing between options.
Fit with the practitioner. The therapeutic relationship is the largest single factor in how the work goes. Read the practitioner’s words. Notice whether they describe what they actually do, or whether they only describe outcomes. Notice whether they name the populations they serve specifically. The practitioner who says “I work with people” is doing something different than the one who says “I work with adults navigating burnout, identity, and relational repair.”
Match between what you need and what each format does well. Counselling holds the slow material. Coaching builds the next chapter. Group therapy brings shared recognition. The book club is the door that opens with the least pressure.
The interactive guide below walks you through a few short questions and routes you toward an entry point that fits where you are right now. There is no quiz score and no diagnostic framing, just a way to surface what your own situation is actually asking for.
Interactive Tool: Which Kind of Support Fits?
A few questions, just to help you find your way
These questions are not a quiz. Each path leads to a recommendation with context and resources. You can go back or start over at any point.
Choose a path that fits your situation. Each path leads to a recommendation with context and next steps.
How a free 20-minute discovery session helps you choose a type of therapy
Most people benefit from a short conversation with the practitioner before committing to anything. The discovery session at Turning Tides is twenty minutes, online, and free. It is a conversation, not a clinical intake.
The session covers three things. First, you say what brought you here in the words you actually use, with no template and no assessment. Second, Kotone outlines what counselling, coaching, group therapy, or the book club would look like for what you described, and is honest about which one (or which combination) fits the situation as you described it. Counselling here draws on Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic therapy, and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) as the work calls for them. Third, you ask questions back. Logistics, frequency, payment, fit, anything else on your mind.
The discovery session is also the best test of the relational fit. Twenty minutes is enough to know whether the way Kotone listens lands for you. If it does not, that is a useful answer too. It saves you from booking a longer session that turns out not to fit.
Nothing has to happen after the discovery session. If it turns out that none of the Turning Tides services fit, you walk away with one more useful data point and a clearer sense of what you are actually looking for.
What types of therapy look like at Turning Tides
The practical shape: every client at Turning Tides starts in the same place, which is the free 20-minute discovery session. That is true regardless of whether they end up in counselling, coaching, group work, the book club, or a combination. The session itself is the routing.
From there, the work goes wherever the conversation needs it to go. Counselling clients can shift into a coaching mode for a particular project, then back to counselling when something deeper surfaces. Coaching clients sometimes realise the goal they came for is sitting on top of something therapeutic, which is its own useful piece of information. The single relationship holds both modes, paced by what the work needs in any given session.
A small step toward choosing a type of therapy
If reading this clarified things, the next step is the discovery session. If it did not, if it left you with more questions than answers, the discovery session is built for that too. Most people who book it have no idea which service they want. Twenty minutes of conversation is usually enough to figure that out, or at least enough to figure out what the next question is.
Important
This article is for informational and educational purposes. It is not a substitute for professional counselling, medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
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